I was sitting in my car yesterday, and I saw a father yelling at his son on the street. The father was upset and really laying into the boy, making it known how disgusted and disappointed he was. He intended to make the boy feel sorry for what he did, and he succeeded.
When the father turned around to keep walking, I noticed he had the same big lips, eyes, and nose as his son. They looked just alike. He must have forgotten how alike he and his son are. Even in anger, if you see yourself in other people, it makes it harder to say/do something inappropriate.