Sex is so inherently enjoyable. Leave it to us neurotic humans to attach all sorts of guilt and shame to the subject. We can never just be happy. Eden isn’t enough, we want to experience sadness, regret, and condemnation, too.
Celebrate your sexuality and your gender identity. Don’t let the hang-ups your parents, friends, clergy, or others are dealing with negatively influence you. When it comes to sex, show self-control, wisdom, and all the other virtues that are key to a happy life, but also just enjoy it.
Stop passing judgment on people because of their sexual decisions. I know people who really think they’re better than Pamela Anderson or Eddie Murphy. This superiority is based on the fact that these and other celebrities are known for having a lot of partners. Pamela Anderson makes great money doing what she loves for a living. She will probably donate more to charity in her life than you will even earn. She is a role model and paragon of personal/professional success. But do you see any of that?
She slept with Kid Rock andTommy Lee? Ick!
So she’s sexually freer than you. She’s also more accomplished, rich, and personally fulfilled. Believe it or not, there is a correlation there. If you’d like to know more about it, read Chapter 11 (The Mystery of Sex Transmutation) of Think and Grow Rich. There are free copies all over the Net.
Again, I cannot stress enough the importance of being smart and doing the right thing at the right time. But if you don’t feel good about sexuality and you don’t want to get over your complex, I’d love to know why not.